I will the machine.

Tag: ultra-endurance

  • The Closing Argument: Trans-Missouri 300

    Three years ago, I asked another ultra-minded friend of mine if they’d be up for riding border to border of the state, from Kansas City, MO to Alton, IL. We then spent the summer putting miles in on the Marthasville corridor of the Katy Trail and its adjacent roads, but had to bump the date back twice. Then, the day before we were slated to drive out to Kansas City to settle in for the 300+ mile effort, something urgent came up for them and I waited another day for an update. That next morning, I ripped my knee open on the latch of the van door as I was getting out for the day. I called someone from inside the horse barn I was working at to bring me a towel to control the bleeding, and then drove myself 30 minutes to the ER.

    My teammate still hadn’t updated me on if we could still make the ride happen, and I asked the doc who was stitching me up, “Should I not ride on this then?”

    “I’m not going to tell you what to do, but I would recommend waiting two weeks,” he said, with cheeky eye contact. The first statement was him talking to me, the second was him speaking to his medical license.

    Once discharged, I drove to Marthasville to tell another friend about the absurdity of the weekend before it had even really started. I texted my teammate to ask for an update- within five minutes they replied to me telling me they were out.

    Before I could come to terms with things just not working out again, my friend broached an idea.

    “You’re already prepped. Why don’t I drive you out to Clinton and you can go for the Katy record.”

    I was listening, but this concept required a total rewiring of expectations, quickly. This new plan meant I lost two key components- a riding partner, and a support car.

    They handed me the trail map that listed all of the trailheads, mile markers, and their amenities. I now had to consider how much extra I could carry on my bike, where I could buy what I couldn’t, and all of the other time-killing tasks that might come up now that a driver wasn’t going to be available.

    This was around 4:00 p.m. on a Friday.

    At 5:00 a.m. Saturday morning, I was 3.5 hours west now rolling out for 240 miles solo with an Ace bandage wrapped around my knee.

    I broke the original women’s self-supported fastest-known-time (set by Kendall Park) with a total elapsed time of 16 hours, 51 minutes. I then came back the next year to ride it again 24 minutes faster.

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    If you haven’t read anything of mine lately, this year has been mostly devoid of any planned objectives since a last-minute ultra race entry in May where I experienced what was likely a CPTSD episode at 170 miles (see Depths Too Dark). The rest of the summer has been further plagued by logistical stress and nervous system shutdown from a long history of having to push too hard on and off of the bike.

    I’m now fully aware of limiters I wasn’t even at the beginning of this year, and more recently discovered how to work with them even as they have slowed me down- one part science, one part spirit. I think I’m onto something.

    And thanks to the most astutely supportive people I have met, one I’ve known for seven years, the other for hardly one, I have a new bike being built at a local bike shop this week to take over for the one I’ve run into the earth for over 40,000 miles. I said earlier this year that I wanted to make that happen and give the full Katy a run again both mechanically and cognitively refreshed, but the chaos since spring meant I was again not able to provide that for myself.

    A couple of people didn’t want to see me fail again and were in a position to do something about it.

    I want to both honor that in my usual style and attempt to end this season with the magnitude I had hoped for, and thought had escaped me. Call me delusional, but I’m staging an intervention.

    In four to six weeks (official date TBD), I want to be cut loose in a parking lot somewhere in Kansas City on that original pursuit to touch both borders in one ride. At approximately 320 miles, I know now that the key to finishing has a lot less to do with my physical capacity and ultimately depends on not having to be the sole proprietor; I want to taste what it’s like to ride without the lessons of relying entirely on me, for once, even if I am not chasing speed this time. I need to see what I can do when I don’t feel unsafe.

    I also want a spot to take a nap that isn’t on the damn ground.

    What is going to be a 24+ hour assault is going to be arresting for a driver (or a team of them), too. The most difficult part of this is asking for help I seldom feel I deserve but have recently been receiving in tons anyway. I am opening this part of the story up for you, dear reader, to be a part of, if you want to. I have a crew of 2-3 stepping up at the moment, but am also putting out the call for at least one more driver. I am also looking to crowdfund for hotel stays at the beginning and end of this behemoth, fuel costs, and making sure all of us are fed. But because there are no rules with this one, riding company and trailside comradery would make this version surreal for me too.

    If you want to be involved, in ways that I have mentioned above or with your own ideas or questions, please Contact Me directly. Years of van-life as an under-resourced athlete have conditioned me to believe I had to account for every detail down to the punctuation mostly alone; class on not having to do that is currently in session. Can I sit next to you?

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    This will be my final push this year, but still a step toward even greater assaults where self-sufficiency and psychological safety will have to be forged in iron. We’ve already started.

    Trans-Am is coming.

    Follow-up – We’re All Dirt: Trans-Missouri 300 Update

  • The Edge

    This is a follow-up post to A Foundation of Sand from May 24th.

    “I haven’t made a plan. I don’t know how I’m even getting to work, 40-minutes away, on Tuesday, let alone the days after that.”

    In the hours after I was crumbling on the patio of the coffee shop I wrote that from, remembering how many times I had been there…

    I remembered how many times I had been there, and how I had handled it. I looked over at my bike and felt something ease.

    I rode 40 miles to the lab, worked my nine-hour shift, and then 40-miles home that Tuesday. I was out the door at 4:30 in the morning, and back to the house after 7:00 in the evening. I ordered pizza, took a shower while I waited, and was in bed again just after 8:00. The schedule on Wednesday was the same. On Thursday I borrowed a car to stay out of the thunderstorms, and on Friday I was back on the bike. The van was delivered to me at work with a new pump, and I drove home. Reluctantly.

    That week was rough on me, but it felt good. So after I realized that another of the van’s tires was leaking from a bad rim (the spare was already on from the last time), I just kept going. A brand-new set of wheels for the van is on backorder but will be here in two weeks. I’m riding 80-mile days when it’s reasonable and babying the leak on the days I need to drive. It’s a little pathetic, but satisfying that I can sustainably handle this in a way that is absolutely unreasonable to many; my willingness to take the unfathomable path is my edge.

    I don’t know that I can ever translate the intensity of the emotion, the inadequacy, that I feel when I struggle like this often and have few people I can call even just to talk about it. People tend to minimize it, unintentionally, because each instance is small in isolation, and because my methods of independence lead me to solutions like 2.5- hour bike commutes twice a day and living in a van from 1985. The acceptance of extremes like that make me look so capable. But for me, a person who has teetered on the edge of not being enough for over a decade, it feels like I am somehow destined by some divine joke to lose anyway. To be cosmically, comically, torn open and kicked every time I take a step. It feels like I’m supposed to give up and to stop kidding myself. All of that is heavy even on a spirit that is just trying to survive, let alone chase something great.

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    In June of last year, I moved in with a partner that eventually told me “You live your life by the edge of a sword.” The comment had multiple layers to it. It was observational, and I agreed with it, but it also held a nuanced implication that I was “too” something again. To him it meant I didn’t trust.

    To me it meant I didn’t trust sooner than it was earned.

    That relationship became dysfunctional over the course of ten months. Twice he told me to get out of the house and go to my van like I was a dog that had been caught chewing the furniture. His own family members told him how damaging that behavior was, and it transformed into just kicking me out of the bedroom because he needed his space. A space he had said was equally mine in words, but obviously not in practice. I had only had my new job for days when I picked up that sword, held it across my chest and said “enough.” In the couple of hours it took me to pack up everything I could take with me in the van, I watched him devolve from antagonizing to stupefied as I held up that standard I had warned him about. “If you think you’re going to relegate me somewhere else out of punishment because I’m my own person in your space, that’s where I am going to stay.” I flipped the choice he kept making, in an act of control he thought he had, and I cut the line.

    I have already lived that life once, and survived. I wasn’t going back.

    That was all at the end of March. I cried once- not because it didn’t matter to me, but because I have my wits so about me about what can and cannot stand that my own self-trust rocks me to sleep. I’ve been here so many times before. Although that snake still lifts its head and rattles “this is all your fault,” one side of the blade whispers back “you aren’t meant to stay here.”

    I listen faster each time. I am not faultless, but I am also not tactless. Over the years, through the thicket of so many friendships and romantic connections based on half-truths, or devoid of truth entirely, my eyesight and steel have both been sharpened. I’ve paid for that in advance by holding grace for longer than was quoted- the quiet part that the snake tends to ignore.

    I am back in this instability because I listen to the quieter voice. I am dealing with nearly incessant setbacks because that is the consequence of choosing to walk away from harm that comes from people. My parents, unhealthy partnerships, friends that aren’t really. Many can’t afford to leave toxic dynamics because of this very consequence- it doesn’t suddenly get sunnier when you leave.

    The vines often get thicker.

    And so, I draw my sword.

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    For once, I am letting the unpredictability of the near future be. I have reached the limit of what I can control, evidenced by a wave of burnout in recent weeks, and using the bike as a tool of survival again. The fitness I’ll gain from riding to work for the summer (it isn’t a bad way to live even when the van is back to 100%) will be a hefty deposit in the bank for the future I have promised myself, even if I don’t know when it will come.

    Once I get there, I’ll get the added gratification of these posts to remember where I came from.~

    I have two longer posts in the works. ‘Projection, Your Honor: Learning to Trust the Part of You That Knows’ is scheduled for Sunday, June 22nd.

    And ‘The Microcosm’, my full monty of my five-year run of living in my van (that may or may not be over yet) is still in progress. This one is a hard write, but it deserves the time it takes.

    As always, thank you for being here.